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Showing posts with label death. Show all posts

Hole-in-the-Wall

 Just down the road, along Route 50 near Trappe, is an eerie landmark that hasn’t yet been swallowed by housing developments or shopping complexes. This lonely brick ruin is all that remains of Whitemarsh Chapel, a church dating back to 1665, which was mostly destroyed by fire in 1897.




This church stood on a main road that ran perpendicular to modern Rt. 50, linking the port town of Oxford and the vanished city of Dover, on the Choptank River.  The church ruins have become convoluted with the nearby historical marker, “Hole-in-the-Wall,” which actually refers to an ancient tavern that stood at the nearby crossroads of Hambleton.  It is easy to see how the confusion came about since the ruins appear, from the road, to be a wall with a hole in it!  The Reverend Daniel Maynadier served as rector of the church from 1711 until his death in 1745.

There is a book in our Special Maryland Collection, Land of Legendary Lore: Sketches of Romance and Reality on the Eastern Shore of the Chesapeake, written by Prentiss Ingraham and published in 1898. It's in the chapter entitled “Weird Tales that are Told” that we find the shocking story of Hannah Maynadier, the rector's wife, who is said to haunt the Whitemarsh Cemetery to this day.

Hannah Martin Maynadier died, and her wish was to be buried wearing an old family ring. Two men who had attended her funeral made plans to break into her grave that night and steal it from her finger. After digging up and breaking open the coffin, they found that they couldn't get the ring off her finger and decided to sever the joint.  This injury to her body, along with the fresh chilly air, revived Hannah, who had been in a coma and not dead as everyone had thought.  She cried out and sat up in her coffin, no doubt giving the grave robbers the fright of their lives. They fled into the surrounding fields.  Incredibly, Mrs. Maynadier, although she was ill and in shock, managed to climb out of her coffin with her burial shroud and make her way through the dark countryside to the rectory, a mile away.   Reverend Maynadier was sitting alone in front of his fireplace when he was startled by a sound at the door as if something had fallen against it, and a low moan.  Imagine his shock and disbelief when he opened the door to find the fainting form of his wife!  He carried her to her bed, called his servants, and sent to Oxford for the doctor.  Hannah Maynadier recovered and lived for many more years.  Daniel and Hannah's grave is now in the church's existing foundation and is marked with a plaque. Some people say that the ghost of Hannah can sometimes be seen, wearing her (first) burial shroud, trying to regain her bearings in the old cemetery before finding her way home.

Mrs. Maynadier isn't the only ghost to lurk in this area, however. There is the ghost of an old doctor in a horse and two-wheeled trap, whose hooves and wheels can be heard on the road along with a voice calling, “Show me the way, show me the way!”  This beloved doctor traveled to patients all around the district and was well known to enjoy a drink.  One night during stormy weather, the doctor was quite drunk when he was summoned to the home of his best friend, who had accidentally shot himself.  After fortifying himself with more drinks, he went on his way, but unfortunately fell asleep while driving, lost his way, and was found the next day disoriented and wandering, still looking for his friend's house. “Oh, show me the way!” he pleaded with the person who found him, who replied, “There's no need now, doctor.  He bled to death two hours ago.  You could have saved him had you arrived last night.” The neighbor set him on the path back to his own home, but that was the last time he was seen alive.  He and his horse were found dead in a wreck caused when a bridge damaged in the storm went down as they crossed.  The old doctor's ashes now lie in Whitemarsh Cemetery, among the remains of so many he had treated in life.  Remember these tales the next time you're traveling the lonely stretch of road between Easton and Cambridge, especially late at night.Maynadiers grave

Presley Carter Balderson

I wrote earlier about my great-great grandfather Presley Balderson and his 3 brothers who were all members of the 40th VA Infantry regiment during the Civil War (The AWOL Season, 5/12/16.)

As a recap, Presley, the youngest of the 4,  enlisted in Warsaw, VA on June 4, 1861 along with his older brother William, into Company D.  Charles and James had enlisted 10 days earlier into Company B; they were both musicians, and both were shoe/bootmakers.  Presley was first sent to Chimborazo Hospital beginning a month after the death of William (wounded fatally at Gaines' Mill on June 27, 1862) and Charles' illness and discharge (in mid-late July 1862.) This was immediately following the regiment's engagement at Cedar Mountain, and he may have been the one casualty listed on the muster list.  The reason for his hospitalization was "debilitas," in other words, weakness or feebleness: exhaustion.  He remained in the hospital until October 23-- a period of over 2 months, after which he was furloughed and instructed to report back for duty on December 1.  He was absent without leave for the month of December, but returned in January, along with his brother James.   Presley was readmitted to Chimborazo in May of 1863 after receiving a gunshot wound through the left shoulder at Chancellorsville. This wound is renowned in family lore because of the harrowing treatment it received from the surgeon:  a red hot poker was driven through it. It's moments like this that can change the trajectory of the future.  The furlough that followed meant that Presley missed the events in Gettysburg, which proved close to disastrous for his regiment.   

Earlier this week, I was poking around at some research and found two wonderful things:  First, a labeled copy of an unlabeled photograph that I have at home.  I love the photo; it's more casual and candid than the posed formal photos you usually see from this era.  The man in the photo has always reminded me of my dad, Carson...just something about his height, build, and kind face.  I knew that he must be a Balderson, but I didn't know which one, or even from what decade the photo might be.  The labeled photo confirmed that it is none other than Presley Carter Balderson and his wife Mary Ann Coates Balderson.  This dates the photo to sometime before 1904, when Mary died while sweeping the floor at home.  

On the same day, I found the obituary shown below, which is lovingly written and detailed, AND adds important information about Presley's service during the war as well as his character.  I didn't know about his participation at the Bloody Angle (the Muleshoe) during the Battle of Spotsylvania Courthouse, although I had heard a snippet about him supposedly rescuing the colors at some battle; I figured it was at Chancellorsville.  So it was great to read his story as he told it just before he died.  ---Yet another instance where fate intervened, the universe watched over him, and he summoned the courage to do his best for his regiment ("team.") And he was rewarded with survival, and a long life.  He outlived Mary Ann by 21 years, and lived to the ripe age of 88.  He met his death with courage and a peaceful heart, it seems.


Two Sides to the Coin of Creepy


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There's the warm side, of friends and firelight, holidays and companionship...romantic language and story-forms.  Tradition.  Tales told over and over but never written down...the same stories told in different ways in different places, the children of travelers, adept at blending in and looking at everything familiar through a different lens in each new location....and all the stories that have been written down.  Literature and folklore, transmission of cultures...Festive and social,  awash in spiced harvest foods, candy, and alcohol.  Creepiness as entertainment: a costume that can be put on and taken off with little or no risk in the comfort of society.  Quaint idioms to universalize and tie a clever bow around the primal reality symbolized and played out by the natural world at this time of year.

But the other side of the coin is not so much cold, as devoid of warmth.  There is no companionable feeling here.  No stories to distract and thrill.  Stories can be put aside, but what is here can never be put aside, because it is part of the whole fabric of which we are made. Nothing is familiar, there is no blending in.  No literature or art to make beautiful that which is inevitable and terrifying.
It is not human, not in our image or the image of any other creature we know.  It does not care or feel.  It is cold.  It is bleak, most of all.  It is what is left when there is nothing else.  Despair and emptiness.  Gray daylight ordinariness.  The most disorienting dream you have ever dreamed.
Sometimes you will catch a glimpse.  This is a warning.  Nothing lies beyond but more and more of the same.  This is what you have been looking for, and it's like nothing you could have imagined.  It is truth.

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